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Weak Ties




What is usually noticed is that the person who is in your secondary list of contacts is more useful than the person in your close contacts.
From my personal experience:
During my hunt for a CA internship, I got 2 references from 2 unknown people. Let me explain:
1. I took a cab from my place of residence to my college to write my test. During the conversation with the driver, I stated about my preparation for CA Exams. He also shared the fact that his niece is also CA in one of the big4 (EY). He was kind enough to guide me and shared the contact details for reference. Well, I was not able to convert the call, nevertheless, I learned about the importance of helping each other.


2. I randomly messaged my seniors ( who were doing CA internships and graduated from the same college) on LinkedIn and to my surprise, I got too many responses. Some of them referred me and some of them guided me. Well, I am not in touch with them, but I am sure they will respond to me with the same enthusiasm.

Recently, while I was looking for a job change, I was referred by those who were not in my regular touch, whereas just the opposite happened with those who were more near and dear.

The lesson I learnt: "Help Logay tabhi toh help karne ka importance samjho gay". 

(Book Reference - “The defining decade: why your twenties matter and how to make the most of them now” By Jay Meg)

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